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ONTARIO: Schools' move to ban Halloween costumes 'sad and wrong'

'No one asked the kids how they feel about this. I’m sure if a vote was actually held, a vast majority (of parents) would want them (costumes in schools)'
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Kimmy Kurik says her daughters Emma, left, and Sophia are disappointed they won't be able to wear their costumes to school Monday.

Kimmy Kurik wonders how far the pendulum will swing.

Living in what’s become a very hypersensitive world, the mother of two says her daughters are upset and disappointed that they can’t wear their Halloween costumes to school Monday.

And she’s not alone with a Tay Shores Public School mother even starting a petition to allow others to voice their concerns about the decision to ban Halloween costumes in local schools in favour of Orange and Black Spirit Day.

“My eldest daughter Sophia has a Queen of Hearts costume she was excited to show off,” Kurik says of her 10-year-old daughter who’s in Grade 5 while her eight-year-old daughter Emma planned to dress up as a ghost.

“No one asked the kids how they feel about this. I’m sure if a vote was actually held, a vast majority (of parents) would want them (costumes in schools).”

Kira Lehtonen, who started the aforementioned petition to voice her concerns, says children do not need to suffer anymore than they have over the past several years and points out that children have been able to dress up as their favourite characters for generations.

"Please help us in trying to keep this tradition alive," she says. "It is concerning that the freedom of expression is being taken away from all children and participating adults in schools. Having fun and being creative with ability to be whom they want to be for one day a year is something we all remember from being a child."

And schools have also addressed what’s acceptable in the past so parents should already know what to expect, according to Kurik.

As examples, she says parents would know not to send their children with costumes that depict blood and gore or something that might be culturally insensitive like an Indigenous headdress.

Another Bayview parent wonders whether the move might be to ensure furries (students who identify as animals) at public schools aren’t offended should a child decide to dress up as a cat, dog, bear or some other animal.

“If anything, they (the furries) should see it as a compliment,” Kurik says, referring to a child who opts for an animal costume.

And Kurik notes that while the school might say it’s an affordability issue, Halloween costumes can be purchased used through stores like the Salvation Army and the Restore. They can also be made at home with items already in the house, she adds.

“If affordability was the issue, we could have a costume drive,” Kurik says.

Some schools like Saint Antonie Daniel Catholic School in Victoria Harbour have a costume coat-rack that allows students to select a donated costume to wear on Halloween.

But the move isn’t limited to the Midland-Penetanguishene area. At least one public board school in Barrie is also adopting an orange and black spirit day to avoid any Halloween controversy.

Simcoe County District School Board communications manager Sarah Kekewich said it's up to the discretion of the principal to determine which spirit days they will participate in as a school.

"Determination for participation in spirit days, such as Halloween, is based on the principal’s first-hand knowledge of their school community. This includes an understanding of the socio-economics, safety and culture at the school." Kekewich says, adding that Midland/Penetanguishene area schools are acknowledging Halloween with an orange and black themed day and individual classroom activities such as pumpkin carving.

"Staff strive to create inclusive environments where all students feel a sense of belonging. Ultimately, if a school-based celebration would preclude students from participation, staff will offer alternate opportunities such as orange and black day and/or school-wide or classroom activities."

But that brings us back to the board’s decision to implement an orange and black spirit day.

What seems hypocritical for Kurik is the fact many parents will actually have to go out and buy orange and black clothing.

She says that while many children have ‘Every Child Matters’ t-shirts, she doesn’t think it’s right to wear a shirt that symbolizes something else since it would diminish the importance of that message.

Kurik says it’s not fair to today’s children that decisions like this one are being made by adults who were able to wear their costumes to school when they were children.

She adds: “It’s so sad and wrong for the kids," she says. "If we're taking Halloween from the kids because of this do we cancel Christmas as well. There has to be a line."


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