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A listening ear

In this week's religion column Clint Sears explores the value of non-judgemental support of someone in need
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Last weekend, my wife and I were honoured to be present with 400 others in support of  “Be that one to give the boot to PTSD gala “ at Club Castropignano, Port Robinson West. The yearly event raises awareness and much needed funding for those working through PTSD. 

The Mayo Clinic defines Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as a “Mental health condition that is triggered by a terrifying event - either experiencing it or witnessing it. Receiving effective treatment after PTSD symptoms develop can be critical to reduce symptoms and improve function.“ 

At the gala three first responders which included a Firefighter, Paramedic and Police Officer shared their brave testimonies in combating PTSD. The processes each have gone through and continue in, both physically and mentally, are unimaginable. As each poured out their hearts, one couldn't help but be moved deeply.

As the result of these brave souls willing to share their lives, one comes away with a greater appreciation of what PTSD really is. As acknowledged by each speaker, the first step on their road to recovery was telling someone of their symptoms.  

John Lennon composed a song which included the words, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.'' I am sure each of the aforementioned speakers can attest to this famous saying in a most profound way. We all can identify with these words whether working through PTSD or working out other issues in our life. The bottom line is that ”Life” happens to us all and there are times in which we appreciate a listening ear. 

Being a good listener starts with the willingness to be available. Availability may require a bit of sacrifice on our part but could very well be the start of someone's journey to freedom. These simple acts of kindness emulate the caring nature of our heavenly Father who listens and hears our prayers. We read in Psalm 66:19 “But truly God has listened; He has attended to the voice of my prayer.”  

These first responders reiterated the fact that the first step to freedom was just having someone who would listen and hear their voice.Sometimes we find it frightening to share issues with others as we may feel embarrassment, shame or even anger. Overcoming this obstacle of trusting someone not to judge can understandably be a daunting task.  

There are times when we are not ready to share with others but still have a need to be heard. It is during these times that we can consider crying out to our heavenly Father even if we feel embarrassed, ashamed or angry. 

My prayer today is that we also consider the non-judgemental, listening ear, of our Lord Jesus Christ as we travel through life’s journey.  

1 Peter 5:7 “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” 



Clint Sears

About the Author: Clint Sears

Pastor Clint Sears holds service once a month at the Port Robinson Community Centre
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